April 06, 2015
Sex is not a need. From the time we were born until the time we discover sex, we live. If it is a need, we should be all dead now. Sex is a reward. A reward from God for staying faithful to Him and by allowing ourselves to extend the love we feel to another human being. This is the reason why guilt happens after we had sex with someone we are not committed to or not committed to us because deep down our hearts we don’t trust that God will give us this gift. We snatched it from God like a little kid who thought he deserves the candy that an adult is withholding from him before breakfast. We get what we think we deserve, sex, but hate it afterwards. God created sex as a wonderful experience, for two people who made the decision to express God’s love through marriage and extend that love to others.